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		<title>Why Online Dating Has Become so Popular</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 00:31:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are hundreds of reasons why online dating has become so popular. In the past, long distance relationships have been frowned upon or at the very least, considered a bit romantic. But in the practical sense, exchanging letters as the main means of communication can never work out, except perhaps for the select few.
Online dating has become a way of life for a large percentage of people. Currently, there are almost 40 million people in the United States alone who subscribe to online dating sites. This number is not so ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-16" style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;" title="popular online dating" src="http://datesextreme.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/whyhasonlinedatingbecome.jpg" alt="popular online dating" width="270" height="152" />There are hundreds of reasons why online dating has become so popular. In the past, long distance relationships have been frowned upon or at the very least, considered a bit romantic. But in the practical sense, exchanging letters as the main means of communication can never work out, except perhaps for the select few.</p>
<p>Online dating has become a way of life for a large percentage of people. Currently, there are almost 40 million people in the United States alone who subscribe to online dating sites. This number is not so surprisingly considering the many advantages that you can get from online dating.</p>
<p>•    Convenience<br />
It is one of the most convenient means of meeting new people and friends. Any one from any part of the world can log into a PC or laptop and in minutes, talk to a person with the same interests. More importantly, you don’t have to drive to a specific place or get dressed. Online dating can be done in the comforts of your home and in your pjs at that.</p>
<p>•    It’s Free!<br />
Most online dating sites are actually free. You can register, create your own profile, upload pictures and see your matches in a matter of minutes. Other online dating sites have free trial periods that can expire in a week or a month and subscribe to the service in a monthly or annual basis. Some sites keep their basic features free but require subscription fee for higher feature packages such as video and audio chat and personal emailing service.</p>
<p>•    Cast a Wider Net<br />
You can meet people not only in your native Texas but the whole world if you want. Online dating sites are available to people from all parts of the globe and if you always dreamed of dating a French native, you can simply log on and search online. But if you want to meet someone closer to home, you might just find your next date living a few blocks from your apartment never meeting if not for the online dating site.</p>
<p>•    Hassle-free Dating<br />
Online dating is so popular because you don’t have to dress up and worry about shaving your legs before the big date. You can meet people, talk to them and even see them online without having to spend on restaurant bills or bar drinks. If you don’t hit it off, just log off. You don’t need to sit and smile miserably while your date rattles on and on about himself and his ex-girlfriend.</p>
<p>•    Finding the Perfect Mate<br />
Call it cheesy but you have a higher chance of meeting your soulmate online than you would in the real world. With online dating, a lot of negative characteristics that you are avoiding can easily be checked off without having to go through the painful process of actual dating. However, online daters are always advised of the dangers of scammers and perverts online so always be smart when it comes to finding love on the net.</p>
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		<title>Does she like you?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 00:26:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You have made your way to the first date, now what? Your first impression of someone changes between the online world and meeting face to face, so how do you know if she is into you?
Here are some easy ways to tell where this first encounter will take you:

Eye Contact &#8211; How does she look at you? Are her eyes actually looking at you, or is she diverted by other things around you? Eye contact is important, essentially by telling you if she is trying to learn more about. Unlike ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-12" style="margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;" title="flirting" src="http://datesextreme.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/flirting.jpg" alt="flirting" width="300" height="201" />You have made your way to the first date, now what? Your first impression of someone changes between the online world and meeting face to face, so how do you know if she is into you?</p>
<p>Here are some easy ways to tell where this first encounter will take you:</p>
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<li>Eye Contact &#8211; How does she look at you? Are her eyes actually looking at you, or is she diverted by other things around you? Eye contact is important, essentially by telling you if she is trying to learn more about. Unlike most mens grazing eye contact in trying to size up a woman, most women aren’t only sizing you up physically when they are looking at you but trying to figure out more about you as a person.</li>
<li> Smiles – A smile says volumes. It tells about whether you are actually engaging in a conversation or boring her. If you can get eye contact and a smile things are looking good that there is a mutual attraction.</li>
<li>Flirting – How does she respond to flirting? Is it brushed off or is it acknowledged. Be careful with this one and don’t give up too easily, if she isn’t responding to your flirting it could be because you are coming across too strong, or not getting your point across at all. Try to look at how your coming across and don’t use a lot of ‘corny’ humor.</li>
<li>Touch – notice this says touch, and not grope. Start with something simple, putting your hand over hers, putting your hand on her shoulder. Instant stiffening = not good reaction, staying relaxed is again another sign that you are on the same page.</li>
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		<title>What Can You Expect When Dating a Married Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2009 23:51:45 +0000</pubDate>
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Dating a married woman can be an exciting, fulfilling way to have some great fun. What can you expect when you date a married woman though?
Married Dating statistics show that one third of women are having sexual relationships outside their marriage – why shouldn’t you enjoy some of that action. Married women come with experience – they know what they want when they are in bed and enjoy sharing it with their partner. She wants nothing from you other than sex, no worries about taking out the trash in the ...]]></description>
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<p>Dating a married woman can be an exciting, fulfilling way to have some great fun. What can you expect when you date a married woman though?</p>
<p>Married Dating statistics show that one third of women are having sexual relationships outside their marriage – why shouldn’t you enjoy some of that action. Married women come with experience – they know what they want when they are in bed and enjoy sharing it with their partner. She wants nothing from you other than sex, no worries about taking out the trash in the morning.</p>
<p>Even in you are not a rich man, dating a married woman is easy on the pocket book. Buying lavish, expensive gifts is a not cool when you are dating a married woman. Even if you are able to afford them, don’t do it, it puts her in a very bad place. If you are going to spend money chose a nicer hotel or a finer restaurant if there is the time.</p>
<p>Here are a few hints and tips to keep you in line with what you can expect:</p>
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<li> Make sure you are man enough to handle hot, hard sex for long periods of time, many married women don’t get enough at home and is one of the top reasons they are looking for a little extra on the side.</li>
<li> Don’t take it personally if it doesn’t become a relationship where she wants to know all about you</li>
<li> Enjoy every moment you have together – time is sacred</li>
<li> Plan what you are going to do – don’t waste your time trying to find something to do at the last minute</li>
<li> Be flexible – don’t be upset if dates are cancelled at the last minute</li>
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<p>The best expectation to have when dating a married woman is to have no expectations, go with it and just enjoy.</p>
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